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Overcoming Performance Anxiety

 
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PostWysłany: Nie 6:27, 12 Sty 2014    Temat postu: Overcoming Performance Anxiety

Overcoming Performance Anxiety
Cognitive distortions also add to our negative feedback loops and challenge our reality thinking. Catastrophizing is where we expect disaster and exaggerate, or shrink the importance of something. An example of exaggerating (magnification) can be losing an erection. We might make it out to be the end of the world, but realistically, is it? Another cognitive distortion is called jumping to conclusions, which often fuels mindracing thoughts. If a person ejaculates quickly, he may assume or anticipate what his partner is thinking, feeling or experiencing. Polarized thinking is when a person thinks in extreme terms with no middle ground. Filtering is when we pick out a negative detail or insecurity, dwell on it and discount the positives or reality.
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There is a lot people can do to work toward managing their anxiety around sexual performance. Many may use techniques to help themselves, while others may benefit from seeing a GP, psychiatrist or sex therapist.
Here are 20 tips to help you work on your performance anxiety.
1. Erase life stressors that create anxiety. If you have stress all around you from work, family, relationships, etc., it bound to take a toll on your sexual functioning. Manage the anxiety around you.
2. Incorporate anxiety reducers in your life. Yoga, nature walks, workouts, hobbies. How many of you have seen a stressedout Buddhist monk? Live a life that promotes mindfulness and calmness.
3. Breathing exercises can decrease anxiety, regulate heart rate, have positive effects on blood pressure, selfsoothe and decrease muscle tension. They can be used outside and inside the bedroom.
4. Mindfulness techniques. The experience of attention to thoughts, emotions, physical sensations and surroundings during any given moment. Being present, learning to limit and manage intrusive thoughts that affect your concentration on pleasure, enhancement, sensation and breath. Not having judgment, creating a safe and secure environment that embraces being one with the moment and with your partner. Anxiety and stress are distracting, the arch nemesis of mindfulness. Learn to clear your mind using meditation, relaxation techniques or visualization exercises. Practice outside the bedroom for improved regulation affects regulation inside the bedroom.
5. Communication. Talking about your fears, concerns and what you need to feel safe and secure. This communication can open up doors to comfort. Being honest with yourself and your partner is key in managing your anxiety.
6. Focus on pleasure. The point of sex is to enjoy pleasure. What sensations do you enjoy, what are your needs, what are your partner's desires? Be playful, keep things light, tickle, get kinky, share fantasies, get swept away by pleasure.
7. Sensate focus exercises. Nongenital and nonintercourse intimacy exercises that help a person explore connection, comfort, intimacy and eroticism without anxious expectations. Exercises that focus on eye gazing, hugging, touch, partner communication, massage, masturbation in front of partner, mutual masturbation, oral and exercises are just a few of the possibilities. These are not goal oriented. Instead, they teach a person to be present and mindful of pleasure with their partner.
8. Increase your sexual comfort. The origins of anxiety may be rooted in sexual discomfort or inexperience. Read about sexuality, learn sexual techniques, have a better understanding of your partner pleasure cues, breathing, body language, sounds and pelvic rocking,
9. Take your time. It not a race to the finish line. People feel more relaxed when they can get into a groove and find a flow. Sex is not about the destination; it about the journey.


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